Plus Size Beautis (@PSBinc) is a organization here in Virginia dedicated to uplifting and empowering women of all sizes, mostly curvaceous, to love themselves and take care of their God-given temples. This organization, based out of Richmond holds several recruiting sessions throughout the year, participates in community events, and mentors to younger girls ages 8 and up with their subsidiary YLOB (Young Ladies of Beauty). The idea is to uplift the spirits of women, tackle sensitive issues in the plus size community, and mentor members young and old. It’s an opportunity for those full figured, plus size and curvy girls to bond with a sisterhood of like-minded individuals and make a difference in the world around them.
This past weekend, Plus Size Beautis had their first ever Women’s Empowerment Symposium at the Holiday Inn in RVA. The event was well attended by groups of individuals, all seeking the same thing… to be empowered and inspired. Plus Size Beautis did just that, by featuring Motivational Speakers, Inspirational leaders and Coaches like Kita Martin, Cecily Hickman of SassC Creations, and Coach Metra of Love Life Enterprises, LLC. These women took the stage to discuss their experiences while providing a message that everyone could relate to and become encouraged. Plus Size Beautis brought women of diverse backgrounds to speak on subjects relating to self-love, faith, and being true to oneself. Several people in the room admitted to being emotional, captivated, for they understood the dynamic, and could resonate with the speakers and their testimony.
I missed the opportunity to catch the testimony of Ms. Kita Martin, Empowering Women on Purpose. She is a Host, Motivational Speaker, Poet and Writer in the 757 area. Her message related to “B the Best “You” can B!” a mantra eloquently placed on the back of her business card. Make sure you get in touch with her for empowerment and motivation, via email at ewop4god@gmail.com
I caught the message from Cecily Hickman, of SassC Creations . Knowing Cecily to be a kind hearted and gentle spirited entrepreneur, I was intrigued by her testimony at the event. Talking to Plus Size Beauti members and their supporters, Cecily touch on issues regarding her self-esteem and the feelings she had growing up. Like me, Cecily had to busy herself with her passions and creativity to eventually find value in herself, thus discovering a new sense of self-esteem. Cecily encouraged event participants to write strong positive affirmations everyday. She listed individuals who have failed in one aspect of their lives, but went on to succeed beyond what they, themselves may have expected. It was motivating to hear some of my own favorites listed, among them Oprah… solidifying the belief that if you keep going, your dreams can and will come true. I appreciate Cecily sharing those aspects of her life. Her presentation was very inspiring. Please be sure to check out her beauty and styling work, as she specializes in versatility in today’s women with SassC Creations at (804) 822-1236.
During our intermission, prizes and raffles drawing were being conducted. Vendors such as Melanie Wade of Modgyrl Cosmetics were in the building. Modgyrl Melanie was displaying and promoting Plus Size Beautis newest partnership with Modgyrl, their exclusive lippies and glosses. Exodus by Design by Brenda Powell was in the building. Her vendor table was being manned by former WEA Member and Hinton Consulting CEO, Tamera Hinton-Bulger. Plus Size Beautis were also selling their branded t-shirts to supporters and their families as well. Among the other vendors were also Hands On Massage Therapies and Palms of Passion. It was great to see all the PSB members rocking their official PSB white polo shirts, looking fabulous and cohesive for the day’s event.
Last, but definitely not least was acclaimed motivational speaker and life coach, Coach Metra of Love Life Enterprises (sharmetrapittman.com/). Metra shared detailed aspects of her life that I think may have hit home with many people. Her honesty and energized spirit was charismatic and engaging, which made her testimony even more motivating and easy to relate to. What hit home with me the most was the experience of having her daughter tell her that she couldn’t wait to get older, so that she could attend nightclubs like her mother. That is something that I think many women don’t realize being prevalent in their child’s mind. That is not the memories I want my child to have of me, and neither did Coach Metra as she admits during her presentation that that incident was one of the catalyst in transforming her life. As she discusses being a better woman, mother, and wife, it’s the down to earth feeling that I get from her that makes me know; this woman isn’t speaking anything but the truth to me. Her speech “Size Does Matter” isn’t dripping with corny phrases set to entice the curvaceous community at all. Her message speaks to the soul that faith, heart, dreams and communication are the most important aspects to living a fruitful and blessed life. The issues discussed were magnetic in their own way; nevertheless, this was an awesome way to wrap up an extra special event orchestrated by the women of Plus Size Beautis.
“The size of your faith, the size of your heart, the size, of your communication, the size of your dreams. Be Loved, Be blessed, Be You!” – Coach Metra
Ladies, if you are looking to join an organization that supports the plus size community here in Richmond or the 757 area, contact Plus Size Beautis today (http://www.plussizebeautis.org/). Even if you aren’t in Virginia at all, and believe that you can head your own chapter wherever you are, feel free to give them a call. Also, check out volunteer opportunities with YLOB (Young Ladies of Beauty) as well at youngladiesofbeauty.com, because mentoring young women to be amazing grown women, should be a priority for all of us.
I’m excited to see what comes down the pipeline for this group next. I hope their work is blessed and they continue to inspire throughout their journey. It was an awesome event, so the next one is promised to be greater.
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Last week I had the pleasure of attending Lela Bizz listening party at 2 Beyond Recording Studios on Southside Richmond Virgina. The studio is located right next to Antonz Barbershop and Beauty Salon off Semmes Ave at 3414 Semmes Ave.
This state-of the art studio featured equipment and resources that any musician would appreciate. Built and managed by Keleek Collins, I’m sure that RVA independent music scene could take advantage of all the features that 2 Beyond Recording Studios has to offer.
At the listening party, we had the chance to check out Lela’s Youtube channel via a flat screen for all to check out and enjoy. The vivid lighting and set-up made it comfortable and enjoyable for us to mix and mingle during the event and participate in watching Lela’s latest hits and covers.
Although the space isn’t huge, it was large enough to accommodate many of the guests, more than we had anticipated and so much more. The studio has a large back entrance where many people were able to congregate and relax, while others enjoyed the main area, and the large open front entrance right off of Semmes Ave.
Anton Cofield was in the building, being a gracious and sophisticated host networking with all in attendance. The evening went without a hitch; everyone laughed, sang along to music tracks, and even completed surveys provided by Lela and her team in regards to her music. Food and drinks were provided, making those invited even more comfortable and at home. Hubs and I thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.
I definitely think you should check out 2 Beyond Studios for your music and/or recording needs. The management there will cater to what you want in services and the location is sophisticated and pristine. The studio is adorned with old school and new school attributes, it’s that “at home” feeling that made us not want to leave. Check it out for yourself and tell them that GaptoothDiva sent you.
3414 Semmes Avenue
Richmond, Virginia 23225
Office: (804) 447-2429
Manged by Kaleek Collins
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If you aren’t looking to get super dressed up and change clothes during the week, but you want to go out to a stylish nightspot right before the weekend, I hear Ladies Night Thursdays at BrickStone Grill is the place to be. This Thursday, 4/4/2013 at 8pm is there official launch that aims to cater to a diverse crowd of sophisticated and stylish people, especially the women. In the former “Razzles” location, BrickStone Grill is offering up a certain atmosphere that promotes maturity and class for those interested in having a great time without all the hassle.
I’m excited to attend this Thursday for my full GaptoothDiva review, so make sure that you’re there as well. We can experience this together. I’m very excited to hear DJLuxxlife on the tables, who promise to provide music we all can enjoy. I’m not nightclub person, but they promise to change that and I can’t wait to see if they can. I hope to see you there for a cocktail… or two. Come ready to have a great time, good conversation and connect with like-minded individuals. I would even bring my business cards and be prepared to network, because you never know who will be in the building. Ladies, it’s all about you this Thursday, can’t wait to have a good time with you.
Invite to Ladies Night Thursday at BrickStone Grill: https://www.facebook.com/events/153343181498483/
9826 Midlothian Turnpike, Richmond, Virginia 23235
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This Thursday March 28th at 8pm, I will have the pleasure of attending a listening party for our girl, the beautiful and very talented Lela Bizz (www.LelaBizz.com) at 2 Beyond Recording Studios (3414 Semmes Ave. Richmond, Virginia 23236 – right next door to the acclaimed Antonz Barbershop & Beauty Salon)
Lela has been working diligently to drop not only an EP of songs that she has written and created herself, but also a mixtape of covers as well. I had the pleasure of asking her a few questions about her style and her music recently and I just couldn’t wait until after the event to share with you what she had to say. If you follow her on Twitter or on Facebook, Lela exemplifies a playful yet seductive style that is as bold as her performances. She always has such a bright and positive spirit every time I see her around RVA. I’m excited for her new projects expected to release, and I believe that you will be also.
I asked Lela how she would describe her personal style. She stated, “I would describe my fashion taste as classy risqué. I like to (think of) it as being daring. I love timeless pieces, I love putting things together.” That’s awesome. From her eclectic choices to her quirky/sexy selections, I can see that she is a risk taker, and we all love a bold and daring style personality.
Lela lists three things as her must haves before ever leaving the house, 1. ModGyrl lippies/ ModGyrl lipstick, 2. Scarf (She ties it as a hair bow), and finally 3. Nerdy glasses or a pair Sunglasses. I’m starting to think this is the universal uniform for all of us these days, because I literally have all that in my purse at this very moment. These are amazing choices for an amazing fashionista, for sure.
Lela doesn’t attribute her style to any favorite designers, but admits that she loves a good thrift shop.
However, when it comes to her favorite cosmetic brand, it’s no surprise that she exclaims, “I’m a ModGyrl all day!”
When asked which trends were currently her favorite now, Lela states, “I love looks from the 90′s., Mom jeans and tied up button ups blouses, and I love polka dots as well”. Lela also explains that she doesn’t necessarily hate any trends, “History repeats itself so I tend to have an open mind with fashion”, she stated.
If you are a supporter of hers on Instagram and Facebook, Lela often post many pictures of her progress through out her insanity workouts and healthy eating. Such an inspiration to young women who want to improve on their bodies and health, she advises, “Beach body workouts are the best! Insanity was the ONLY workout that I have done and seen results. I worked out before, pretty frequently, but it’s something about insanity that pushes you to new heights!” Lela also mentions that she is currently a Beach Body coach and that she goes hard for Insanity. She plans to do Chalean Extreme next. You can check her out at www.beachbodycoach.com/Bizzybfitness
So when it comes to her music, she takes it extremely seriously. I remember seeing her doing covers on Youtube back in 09, and she has only progressed since then. She was even featured on GaptoothDiva Radio back in March 2011, bringing a genuine talent that was respected and adored.
When asked how her new EP and her mixtape differ from past projects that she has worked on, she stated, “The mixtape is all covers. I have never done a mixtape with all covers before. (In addition)The EP is a collection of songs, that I feel represent exactly who Lela Bizz is! If you didn’t know who I was, The Ep would explain all of that in 7 songs.”
When asked which track does she say describes exactly where she is in her life at this moment, Lela explains “If I had to pick one… I would say, “Would’ve Known Betta “. That song speaks to me!” Therefore, who has influenced this artist throughout this whole creation process, Lela attributes Jazmine Sullivan for embodying so much emotion in her music. “I feel I really embodied my emotions in that song. I feel Jazmine does that with every song she does!”
Lela Bizz says that the people who understand her music the most are the individuals that have fell in love and fell out of it! She says that her songs are based on true events, and that what she speaks to.
So, what can we expect from Ms. Lela Bizz after this scheduled listening party March 28th ? She informed us, “I’ll be touring and promoting!” The hard work never quits and that is truly motivating.
Check out the official Lela Bizz website: www.lelabizz.com
Follow and support her on Lela Bizz (Facebook) – https://www.facebook.com/lela.bizz?ref=ts&fref=ts
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This Saturday March 30th, I will be accompanying Zakia Jemaceye (also known as Eye2go on FB) to a few events. She has been crowned Mz. International Supermodel 2011 and 2012 & Miss Gay Richmond 2011-2012. In addition, if you inquire with her about getting your face beat and looking fabulous, she states, “I slay a set of Eye-Brows, Lashes or Faces”. I love it! I met Zakia a few years ago as she performed for an earlier showcase that was hosting back in 2009, her grace and pose makes her a force to be reckoned with and an exemplar among the Richmond LGBT community. I’m certainly excited to spend the day with her. Her amazing personality and her fierce performance skills proves that Saturday may just be more electrifying than I can anticipate.
The first event that we are attending will be all about Empowerment. The Train Yourself to Win Empowerment Seminar for Women is scheduled to go down at the Comfort Inn Midtown Jefferson Conference Room in Richmond, VA. The event is all about building self-esteem and having fun. From 10 am to 12pm, we will enjoy life coaching and making our goals count with Author Suzanne A. Roberts. To get tickets to attend, email sansberrycoaching@gmail.com or call (888) 908-9043. This is an adult only event and light refreshments will be served.
Later on Saturday, we will be celebrating the launch of Nationz Pageantry System. The name derived from the local Richmond club Nations, where Zakia was crowned the last Miss Nations before they closed. She inherited the rights to the name and changed the spelling. Zakia began to market it on a national level and currently travels the county entertaining and competing in pageants on a state and national level. It has always been her dream to bring that to Virginia.
Recently, September 30, 2012 Nationz Pageantry System held their Plus division for Plus sized female impersonators and on September 28, 2013 they plan to have Mr. and Mz & Plus National Competitions. The All Red Affair is a Promotional Party to introduce Nationz Pageantry System to the world. It will be a night of Glitz and Glamour, featuring some of the most beautiful Female Impersonators and Lead Male Entertainers from all over the east coast. The Master of Ceremonies for the evening will be Fenniz Baldwyn Zakia has special guest entertainers from Washington DC and New York as well.
Doors open at 8pm with a Meet and Greet for those who have purchased early tickets from 8-8:45 then Showtime is at 9:00pm.
It is Zakia’s hope to bring to Richmond a new and improved outlook on what Female Impersonation is all about. Nationz Pageantry: The Red Affair is the official Kick off for something wonderful here in Richmond. I couldn’t be more excited for her, because I love a good show full of fierce beauty and lots of fun!
Tickets are 20.00 in advance and 25.00 at the door unless you have on Red or Accents of Red. There will be a great Buffet and DJ Robb will be spinning the music and giving the kids the old Scandal’s Pyramid feel of House and Club Music. I really hope to see you there looking beautiful and glamorous.
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Well, this weekend I’m headed over to Gallery 5 for The Spa Soiree brought to us by Sophi Chic LLC, who is dedicated to promoting health and beauty related businesses to new customers, while providing sophisticated chic experiences to empower and reward women. Collaborating with Sophi Chic is Jovee Co., they are gearing up to be RVA’s premier pampering party.
Spa in the City (SITC), a multi-city event is designed to bring consumers together in support of women-owned small businesses operating within the beauty and arts industries. Spa in the City (SITC) founded by Jhavon Smith assembles aestheticians, manicurists, makeup artist and stylists, as well as community vendors who specialize in a range of beauty and health services like massage therapy and nutrition. “It is an exciting event that brings together retailers and spa services all under one roof!”
Jhavon Smith says, “I have always admired women who have succeeded and failed at owning their own businesses. It is the sharing of information, and ideas/concepts that make us stronger as women and entrepreneurs. That energy is one that cannot be bottled and sold”
Spa in the City (SITC) caters to women by allowing them to indulge in services while providing an outlet to do so in a relaxing eclectic art atmosphere. SITC- Is currently scheduled to visit 5 different cities this year. Next Stop NYC- May 2013. Spa in the City has also featured in Oakland, CA, Washington, D.C, and Baltimore, MD
Here at GaptoothDiva.com, we’re pretty excited to see how amazing this event will be and to share all of the fabulousness that I catch. I hope to see you there!
The exclusive beauty event of 2013 is here! Come out, unwind, and indulge in luxurious spa treatments with your friends in Richmond’s eclectic Arts District.
“The Spa Soiree” will feature:
*FREE Beauty Product Samples
*FREE Beauty Gifts
*Deluxe Spa Treatments
*Boutique Style Shopping
*Complimentary Hors d’oeuvres
*Raffle and Door Prizes
*Fundraising for local RVA charities
*Health & Wellness Consultations and more!
Join us for an evening of relaxation and pampering, while we offer an intricate fusion of art and beauty. Get ready to experience a chic feature of today’s premiere spa and beauty businesses!
Cost: $15
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On Sunday afternoon, decked in my fall thrifted finds, I made my way to Wingate by Wyndham Hotel in the Short Pump area. Keenya Kelly did it again, bringing stylish, chic, and eclectic natural hair and fashion devotees under one roof for networking, shopping, and education. Accompanied by Co-host, Speaker, and Blogger Mealing Tapp (www.naturalchica.com), who shared her natural hair journey and answered questions from attendees, Return of the Curls aimed to awaken a true essence of natural beauty for Richmond residents. The hotel’s lobby was immersed with beautiful women and men, displaying an array of personal and individual style. Although the air was somewhat crisp in Richmond yesterday, the overload of “you betta weerrrkk” brought the temperature inside to an all time high. I was rocking a new favorite sweater adorned with faux fur and I couldn’t help but glisten (I say glisten, cause I’m a lady chile!), and I wasn’t the only one. Some divas had to hang out in the halls, and even the bathroom to cool their beat faces; I wasn’t tripping. I said, ‘keep the party going” and snapped shots of some of my favorite fashionistas at the event, fanning myself the whole time. Girls were bringing serious attitude as well, but not how and/or what you would come to expect, at an event where the majority is women. There were definitely positive and smiling faces walking around as I observed women empowering each other, offering advice and tips, and even sharing their fashion and hair care secrets.
There were plenty of beautiful faces decked in vivid shades and hues. I’m talking seriously beat faces from self-proclaimed non-professional makeup artist. As a woman addicted to her lipsticks and eye shadows, I can appreciate a great makeup job, especially if I have to do it myself. One girl even admitted to wearing cosmetics that she purchased from the dollar store. We all know that truly proves skill. It’s not about the brand of tools when you know that you can complete the mission. I was impressed with her eye shadow game and complimented her on the spot. Kudos dolls for beating those faces as if they stole something!
Of course, when attending a natural hair event you expect to see various curls, kinks, locs, and braids. Well, attendees of the ROTC Trunk Show brought straight drama, class, color, and funkiness with unique hair creations. Shea Radiance and Infinite Hair Car System took to two main areas educating event goers on hair care maintenance, styling, and how to properly utilize their products. Women were immersed in learning new ways to take their natural coif to the next level.
Along with beautiful hair and faces, the outfits were giving me straight life. Some store bought concoctions and some thrifted and created. Some were even mixing trends with vintage, highs with lows, and DIY fashion with major labels. I just couldn’t take it. It was amazing. I’m a sucker for the unique and quirky, and although I wasn’t too shabby myself, these girls were bringing the business in fashion to RVA.
Overall, it was a very successful event. I’m so pleased to have had the opportunity to enjoy another great natural hair event in Richmond, Virginia. I always believe there should be more, because the natural hair community in Richmond is very plentiful. Women here want more style options, educations, and choices for fashion, hair, and cosmetics. With events like these that aim to be about the people and not their wallets, we are well on our way to being yet another capital of urban natural style and fashion. We can’t wait for the next one! I’m definitely a huge fan.
Here is visual of the trunk show…
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One of my biggest issues when I voted for the first time was that I did not know the other names on the ballot besides the Presidential Candidate. I was at a lost as to whom I should vote for, because some of the names mentioned on my ballots were not familiar to me at all. There were no insane political commercials for these people and most often no media coverage. I had to take the time out to find out who these people were and their stance on the issues that were important to me. Too many voters cast their votes, without knowing this very basic information. I even heard of people just picking a candidate because of their name, never knowing if they are democrat, republican, independent, or other.
To help you, and myself I decided to research this information to make it easier for all of us to make an informed decision tomorrow at the polls. If you’re in Richmond Virginia, below is a list of candidates and their prospective positions. Find out which district you are located in by going to the State Board of Elections website (https://www.voterinfo.sbe.virginia.gov/PublicSite/Public/FT2/PublicLookup.aspx?Link=Registration) and input your location. You can also go to Google under (https://www.google.com/elections/ed/us/vote), after you input your address; Google will provide you a list of candidates that will be on your locality’s ballot.
Here are the names of the candidates that you may find on your Virginia ballot on November 6th…
Democratic Barack Obama & Joe Biden
Republican Mitt Romney & Paul Ryan
Libertarian Gary Johnson & James P. Gray
Green Jill Stein & Cheri Honkala
Constitution Virgil H. Goode Jr. & James N. Clymer
Republican George F. Allen
Democratic Timothy M. Kaine
Republican Dean J. Longo
Democratic Robert C. “Bobby” Scott
Republican Eric I. Cantor
Democratic E. Wayne Powell
Independent Dwight C. Jones
Independent Michael K. Ryan, Jr.
Member City Council – DISTRICT 1 RICHMOND CITY
Jonathan T. Baliles Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 1 RICHMOND CITY
Bruce W. Tyler Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 2 RICHMOND CITY
A.S. “Charlie” Diradour Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 2 RICHMOND CITY
Charles R. Samuels Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 3 RICHMOND CITY
Erin L. Delp Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 3 RICHMOND CITY
Chris A. Hilbert Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 4 RICHMOND CITY
Kathy C. Graziano Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 4 RICHMOND CITY
Johnny S. Walker Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 5 RICHMOND CITY
Parker C. Agelasto Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 5 RICHMOND CITY
E. M. “Marty” Jewell Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 5 RICHMOND CITY
S. Lee Shewmake Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 6 RICHMOND CITY
Ellen F. Robertson Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 7 RICHMOND CITY
Cynthia I. Newbille Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 8 RICHMOND CITY
Jimmy R. Hart Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 8 RICHMOND CITY
Dawn C. Page Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 8 RICHMOND CITY
Reva M. Trammell Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 9 RICHMOND CITY
Douglas G. Conner, Jr. Independent
Member City Council – DISTRICT 9 RICHMOND CITY
Michelle R. Mosby Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 1 RICHMOND CITY
Trent M. Park Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 1 RICHMOND CITY
Glen H. Sturtevant, Jr. Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 2 RICHMOND CITY
Kimberly B. Gray Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 2 RICHMOND CITY
Daisy E. Weaver Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 2 RICHMOND CITY
Mariah L. White Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 3 RICHMOND CITY
Jeff M. Bourne Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 3 RICHMOND CITY
Norma H. Murdoch-Kitt Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 4 RICHMOND CITY
Mary C. Blanchard Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 4 RICHMOND CITY
Pat C. “Conn” Churchill Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 4 RICHMOND CITY
Vanessa Womack Easter Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 4 RICHMOND CITY
Kristen N. Larson Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 4 RICHMOND CITY
Rich J. Savage Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 5 RICHMOND CITY
Maurice A. Henderson Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 5 RICHMOND CITY
Mamie L. Taylor Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 6 RICHMOND CITY
Shonda M. Harris-Muhammed Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 7 RICHMOND CITY
Donald L. “Don” Coleman Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 8 RICHMOND CITY
Albertina R. Carter Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 8 RICHMOND CITY
Derik E. Jones Independent
Member School Board – DISTRICT 9 RICHMOND CITY Tichi L. Pinkney Eppes Independent
Economy
Immigration
Healthcare
Government Spending
Jobs & Unemployment
National Security
Social Issues
• Virginia voter registration card
• Valid Virginia driver’s license
• Military ID
• Any Federal, Virginia state or local government-issued ID
• Employer issued photo ID card
• Concealed handgun permit
• Valid student ID issued by any institution of higher education located in the Commonwealth of Virginia
• Current utility bill, bank statement, government check or paycheck indicating the name and address of the voter
• Social Security card (*please see below as the social security card does not satisfy special federal ID requirements)
*A voter who does not bring an acceptable ID to the polls will be offered a provisional ballot.
It doesn’t matter whom you decide to vote for, what’s important is that you make a well-informed decision and exercise your right to vote. The people listed above are being paid to make decisions that will affect our country and the people who live here. If you have issues that are important to you, by allowing your voice to be heard through your vote, you are affecting your livelihood and your future. Who doesn’t want that opportunity?
When tomorrow roles around, motivate yourself and others to vote. If you need transportation to the polls, Radio One Richmond and Miss Community Clovia will provide rides to the polls for voters on Election Day.
If you will need a ride to the polls on November 6, 2012, call the Poll Patrol Hotline at 804-501-0415 or for rides in Petersburg call Delegate Rosalyn Dance’s office at 804-862-2922. Leave your name, address, and telephone number. (Speak clearly.)
I look forward to seeing some of you at the polls and be sure to post pics of your sticker saying that you voted in this 2012 election. If you show your voter pride and tag @GaptoothDiva or post them to (http://www.facebook.com/gaptothdivaonline), you may see your pics posted on this site after the election.
Good Luck and God Bless!
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This past weekend, I met up with a Facebook friend of mine by the name of Tamera Hinton (Tamera Bulger). She recently held what would be the first Women Entrepreneurs of America meeting in Richmond, Virginia. This function was held at Mimi Café on West Broad Street, a restaurant I hear is good (however, we didn’t eat). A handful of women came to find out more about the organization, Women Entrepreneurs of America, Inc. and how they could possibly become apart of it.
Tamera explained her role in WEA and introduced us to the Yolanda Lamar-Wilder. She described her as, “Yolanda Lamar-Wilder, Founder and National President, founded WEA, Inc. in November 2002. Mrs. Lamar-Wilder extended an invitation to over 100 women in business and those who want to start their own businesses to come together and discuss social, economic and legislative issues in Greater Cleveland, Ohio and across the nation. After much evaluation and several months of thoughtful planning and documentation, Women Entrepreneurs Of America, Inc. was officially chartered in November 2002. Now a 501(c) (3) nonprofit, membership based women’s organization.”
They currently have several local chapters within the Midwest including, Detroit/Flint, Michigan, Indianapolis, Indiana, Miami/Tampa, Florida, Atlanta, Georgia, Philadelphia, PA., St. Louis, Mo., Chicago, IL., Houston, TX. and now the Founders hometown, Gary, Indiana. Yolanda was placed on speaker phone as we discussed the benefits of the organization and how women like us, all over Virginia, could utilize it to our advantage as well as be of assistance.
The conversation got in depth regarding the benefits of an organization like this, starting from the ground up. In order for it to be successful for Virginia, Tamera would have to enlist at least 10 women. Each of these women would have to agree to pay a membership fee of $65.00 annually, as well as contribute their skills and resources to assisting other women in the organization. The training and workshops would have to be conducted by the members themselves or outsourced from a professional of their choosing. WEA describes their mission as, “The mission of WEA, Inc. is to “empower and support” women, young girls and now men in business, expand and enhance the lives of its membership and the African-American community through quality programs, training, education, volunteerism, and leadership development. Our efforts are in providing resources to “women in transition” and a portion of our proceeds go to the WEA Women in Transitioning Fund for training, workshops and ex-offenders re-entry programs.”
In a time, where everyone with a degree or ambition wants to start their own dream career, people are literally scratching to get out there. We all discussed the rudeness, the frustration, and the negative experiences that come with being an entrepreneur and a woman. It’s not for the faint of heart and as one woman said during the meeting, “you have to have tough skin!” So with Tamera (a new resident of Virginia) trying to bring this organization to Richmond, courage is something to be applauded. Some women fear rejection and ridicule, failing to take their skills and business to the next level, but here is this mother and businesswoman attempting to unite us all, when she barely knows anyone here herself. A huge quality that will aid in the success of the organization is the ability to present connections and resources for those members needing it. If the members pay an annual fee, I’m almost certain they are going to want to see their business progress due in part to becoming a member in the first place. The first to join this project will have to be able to present substantial resources, connections, skills, and knowledge, so that those coming under them will benefit as well.
You could cut the skepticism in the room with a knife. I’m not sure if the resistance was from knowing there isn’t an immediate return on investment or perhaps the knowledge of other female-based organization in the area offering similar payback. Those organizations are already established and functioning in the state. It wasn’t the annually fee for sure, especially since Tamera and Yolanda were offering a special discounted membership fee of $50 (normally $65) and a gift bag to the ten founding members of the future Virginia Chapter of Women Entrepreneurs of America. By participating in the discount, you would officially become one of the founding members, dedicating your time and labors to ensuring that this chapter is of value to future members.
One woman at the luncheon was the apparent individual not awed, however I couldn’t determine which side of the fence the others stood on. I know for certain that Tamera is definitely persevering and motivated that she can spearhead a Virginia chapter of entrepreneurial woman, all seeking support in the evolution of their ventures. She stated that her idea was to bring women together, once attempting to start a Curly Girl meet-up group in the Richmond Area. However, like most people’s experiences, in Virginia you have to earn their trust, then you earn their support.
I look forward to hearing new developments about this organization, Women Entrepreneurs of America. I really hope to see something positive come from this, because it truly can be a benefit to female business owners in the state. I want to see more of us coming together and collaborating, without the cattiness, unnecessary miscommunications, and “diva” attitudes that seem to perpetuate the stereotype that we’re too much drama. It’s enough limelight and success for us all, and treating each other like the competition or enemy, isn’t going to get us anywhere closer to our goals. We’re all-special and come from unique and diverse backgrounds, instead of battling each other, we should learn from each other and produce better quality results. So many of us try to go against the grain in some fashion to be unique, when we should sometimes try to create an environment of things being smooth.
If you’re interested in joining Women Entrepreneurs of America or getting more information, connect with them at their website http://www.weainc.webs.com/
Remember Tamera and Yolanda are offering a special discounted membership fee of $50 (normally $65) and a gift bag to the ten founding members of the future Virginia Chapter of Women Entrepreneurs of America, so time is of the essence. You can also contact the Member Committee Chair at (888-871-3566) for additional info. Payments online http://www.weainc.webs.com through www.PayPal.com (Account: womenentrepreneurs2002@gmail.com)
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Last year when I did my first haul video, I enjoyed myself so much. I wasn’t sure if people would like it or not, part of me didn’t care. I just wanted to share one of my passions, which happened to be thrifting. Most girls do their fashion haul videos and it’s consisting of stuff bought from all the major retailers. I don’t think that’s interesting at all. In my opinion, it’s easy to go to Forever 21 or Charlotte Russe, and just pick up the latest trend and take it home. Then these girls sit in front of the camera as if they did something amazing. They did not.
I think it takes more creativity and courage to post a video of stuff you found at a thrift store or flea market. Not everyone else can see the potential in thrift store treasures. In addition, more people are pretending as if they are too high class to shop at thrift stores. With today’s economy and my eclectic personality, I can’t see why anyone wouldn’t. I love it, with no trepidations I shop until I drop. That’s why I’m almost complete with my challenge of “At Least 90% Thrifted”, where I only where items that I either already own or I’ve thrifted. I can’t buy new retailer items, unless it’s cosmetics or accessories.
So look forward to me sharing new stuff… and try to see the potential. I dare you!
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As always I appreciate getting music videos from Independent artist looking to share the work and get feedback. Since I’ve been away on hiatus, I received quite a few submissions, some overlooked, but most of them from some very creative and ambitious artist.
One particular person by the name of Jaesen K reached out to me, letting me know that he really wanted to get his name out there and was looking to put out a mixtape soon. Say whatever the hell you want, but I REALLY hope they do!!
I was seriously feeling this. They have gotten quite a few views on their video via YouTube, most by some haters who need to shut up and put out something worth talking about. However, they obviously got something. The people were bugging and seriously mad for whatever reason. They are different and that’s what I like about ‘em. No one can be described as “Wack” to me, who has the balls to wear colorful harem pants, rap his heart out, and make me forget the obvious reason why people are mad, when I close my eyes (wink). Nice!
I bet if a mixtape did come out and they went super hard, they could be exactly where they want to be. If not, its great art that I can honestly say I appreciate. Keep it up!
Check it out for yourself…
Director: BREE EL Producer: GINYA BOY
To submit your new music videos or to get a featured interview…
After attending the 1st Annual Hair Battle Royal in Richmond, Virginia (at the Showplace) and hosted/created by Mario Lee with some fantastic assistance by none other than the RVA Queen of Marketing, Mareesa Dawn, I was blown away. Although this was his first Hair battle competition, the event showed a dedication and jubilant ambition that many of our veteran promoters don’t display as often as they should. He thanked every single person for showing up, an appreciation that was hard to go unnoticed. He catered to the public, his supporters, and all the people who assisted in putting this effort together, rather made them feel like they were lucky to even get in the door. He insisted upon the crowd showing their support for everyone, not just the individuals they came to see, although at times some were resistant, his efforts were not unnoticed.
The event did not go without some kinks here and there, however the positive attitude he brought with him from the first moment compelled you to give him the chance he deserved. With the help of Ms. Dawn, the two kept it interesting and fun, no questions. I was asked to be one of the judges on a panel that included Ms. Community herself, Clovia Lawrence and a New York Stylist and Promoter by the name of Hustleman. Both of whom I met for the first time that evening, but laughed and conversed with as if we knew each other for a while. I really enjoyed myself and the show. I learned a lot about people and perception that evening, a few details I’m so excited to share with you. Now during my hiatus, I promised myself upon my return I would be a specific as possible, detailed thoroughly, and as honest as God will allow. If some of these lessons pertain to you (as the reader), please don’t take it personally. Just realized that your details (or lack there of) did not go unnoticed by me or anyone else, whether they openly say so or not. Expect for someone to keep it real.
1. Being late to a show/competition that you are in (and I mean seriously late) always shows. No matter how good you may be, people can tell a rushed job and performance versus someone who is calm and already knows they have the prize in the bag.
2. Be careful who you are rude to! You never know if the person you are eye-balling, rolling your eyes at, whispering about, or basically hating on, is the person to bring you to that next stepping stone. Choose not to be a bitch, until after the person as offended you. You aren’t anybody worth making everyone jump through hoops to get a cordial attitude out of, no matter what the mirror told you this morning.
3. Fashion shows, hair shows, creative events as a whole is your opportunity to showcase your unique and eclectic fashion choices. So don’t get upset at the girl who decided to show her creative/sexy side and you chose jeans and a t-shirt. Be inspired and stop hating!
4. You CAN clap and support groups that you did not come to see. It’s not illegal or against any rules. Just because you friend, cousin, or stylist is there, I’m sure there are plenty of other talented groups that deserve your accolades. This is not a gang war, show some love all around.
5. You can not use babies and small children to cover up a sloppy performance… period. Many people are distracted by the adorable faces and sassy dance moves of young people, I happen to not be one of them. Although all kids are cute and cuddly in their own way, if the performance is disorganized, sloppy, and just plan wack… you will know.
6. Creativity can get you a long way in life. No matter the level of expertise you have, if you showcase the limited skills you have in the most creative way possible, you will leave people mesmerized. Don’t worry about what you don’t have, use the heck out of what you do!
7. Participation does not go unnoticed. People can tell when you put your all in something, when you approach the stage fearlessly compared to your competition. Don’t get loss in the sauce.
8. Don’t let your friends down. You only hurt yourself when you flake out on your group, no call-no show, and bail (physically or mentally). That’s just something people don’t forget, ask the winners of this competition. They could have been affected by the shady person who left them hanging, but instead they went even harder and stronger to gain the respect of the crowd and the judges. This attitude made them $2,000 richer in the end *snap*!
9. Never be afraid to be honest. Someone made a comment about not saying certain groups were lame or lacking skills, because their family members may be listening and be offended. Going so far as to say they might want to retaliate after the show. I laughed at the idea of getting into a fight because I was doing my job, which was judging. In life, we have critics. There are people all over who feel we don’t deserve the seat we sit in. However, if you live according to what other people respond to, then you are weak. Period. Constructive criticism shouldn’t be taken as a threat, but as a blue print on how your fans, supporters, and even your haters may see you. You dissect what you need and you move on, don’t stress and damn sure don’t brawl.
10. Everyone has to start somewhere, but as long as they start – that’s all that matters. You may not have all the money, the networking connections, or the support that some people have, but if you don’t step out into your dream somehow and someway, then it will never happen. Mario showed that he had a big vision and he was destined to carry it out. He learned from the first experience and vowed to make the needed changes for the next go round. He didn’t fuss about what went wrong or what people said, but promised bigger and better the next time. He displayed and attitude that most of us could learn from. We can’t impress everyone, all the time, but what we can do, is do something. Whether the masses cheer or not. Because he was so positive and driven, he got all the support he needed, which was the coolest thing of all.
I wasn’t able to take a whole lot of pictures because of my capacity as a judge, but I did take a few for this post. Please be sure to like us on Facebook as we gain more inspiration and motivation to hit you with.
To contact Mario (Hair by Mario Weave Master) hit him up via email at devablezsoe@yahoo.com for weaves, up-dos, and quick weaves. He also offers classes and information on weave which are filling up fast. Check him out on Facebook under Mario Lee
The Annual Hair Battle Royal has a page as well – http://www.facebook.com/pages/Annual-Hair-Battle-Royal/185974514843316 for more photos and event updates
Also contact the lovely and incomparable, Mareesa Dawn VA Marketing Queen who ensured the word got out about this event. She is amazing and always on her grind, so don’t sleep, cause it seems she never does. She is on Facebook at Mareesa Dawn
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Examples of other Hair Shows & Competitions…
SOPHISTICATE’S BLACK HAIR AT THE BRONNER BROS.SHOW! -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxjmTUPeXZg
Highlights from the 2011 Bronner Bros. Hair Show on 2.20.2011 -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NgOZz7OZQ5s&feature=related
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GaptoothDiva goes on another tour of the Handmade Holiday Craft Show by The Richmond Craft Mafia in Richmond, Virginia‘s Artworks/Plant Zero gallery. This event brings in local artisans and crafters from all over who not only showcase their unique and creative handmade gifts and accessories but they are also available for purchase. Only the best of the best are featured in this craft show, all trying to rub out the mass produced and gift their customers and fans something they all can enjoy, unique things to take home and call their own. Watch as GaptoothDiva stops at some of the boldest and eye catching tables in support of local artist and crafters everywhere.
Those featured:
Crystal J. Silks – http://www.crystaljsilks.com/
Nicole Lee Designs – http://www.nicoleleedesigns.com/
Moon’s Creation – http://www.moonscreations.blogspot.com/
EHL Creations – http://www.ehlcreations.com/
Mashulu by Artina – http://www.mashulu757.com/
Ittty Bitty Press – www.IttyBittypress.com
SquidFire – www.Squidfire.com
MonkeyDogStudio – www.MonkeydogStudio.etsy.com
Penelope Rakov – www.PenelopeRakov.com
For information about joining the RVA Craft Mafia go their website at www.RichmondCraftMafia.com or follow them www.Twitter.com/RVACraftMafia
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Theresa Flatts of http://www.Unforgettablewoman.org facilitated a fashion show for the plus size and full figured community for 2011 Winter season in celebration of the holidays. This event included performances by the Full Figured Dance group, Ms. Proper of So Proper Entertainment, and even audience members. Naneen Cottrell Johnson, model coordinator and trainer assisted in making this event a success. Dance routine choreographed by I’esha GaptoothDiva of www. GaptoothDiva.com, Cecily Hickman of SassC Creations provided the beautiful makeup for most of the girls including I’esha GaptoothDiva. Jamal Mayes on photography.
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With Thanksgiving just around the corner, many people are desperately trying to figure out how they are going to feed their families and themselves this holiday season. With many unemployed and under employed families, this thanksgiving holiday may not be as joyful for some. Thankfully, through the hard work and collaborative efforts of some fantastic businesses and entrepreneurs, over 200 men, women, and children will get warm winter clothes and Thanksgiving meals.
This year, we celebrated the third annual Feed the City Event inRichmond’sMonroePark, Sunday afternoon. A day that was blessed from the start with a perfect weather forecast, just so that participation was in full effect. Moreover, participation was surely appreciated as the park was filled with volunteers (including the GaptoothDiva’s mother herself, Marchell), more volunteers and vendors (Noah- O and Young Yankee from Charged Up Entertainment) and so many grateful individuals who came with smiles and open arms.
It was heart warming to see so many selfless individuals donate their time, food, and clothing for those that did not have those essentials for the holidays. I hate to use the words “less fortunate”, because although some may lack food and winter clothes, most of the people that benefited from this event knew and understood what a blessing was, and they were some of the most fortunate people around. Blessings and fortunes come in all shapes and sizes, but for the people that took part in this event, they came abundantly.
The energy was intoxicating as volunteers laughed and interacted with one another and the people of the city. Even before entering the park, I saw smiling faces pushing shopping carts up the street filled with bags of food or clothes. Preparing for the winter and excited with their new items. I appreciate receiving the invite from Tamir Rock, (who according to Noah-O, later performed at the Camel for his monthly Re-birth event) who along with family and friends came up with this spectacular opportunity to give back to the city. It was truly a blessing to see that many people come together with one main purpose, to give back. Something about the atmosphere made me even more grateful for the life I have and people in it. Those walking around feeling hopeless and unloved would have changed their tune had they stood where I stood yesterday afternoon.
This holiday season and beyond, I pray that you look within yourself and look into your life, we all have so much more to be thankful for than we know.
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From a S.i.C.K clothing line, to mentoring the youth in the coomunity, to a brand new album, Will aka “Dre” Brimmage is RVA’s modern day jack of all trades. Behind an abitious spirit and a hunger to revitalize a culture of true hip-hop heads and artistic minds, Will’s mission is to promote positive progression in our society while upholding one’s own individuality and persona. “Be You” is his motto as he touches art in all forms.
Check out the interview between myself (I’esha GaptoothDiva) and Will about his new album You Know Dre and how his way of thinking should be adopted by all those that claim to recognize REAL.
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Check it out www.sicksociety.bigcartel.com and www.sicksocietyclothing.com
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